Ten tips for successful outsourcing (in the city and the world)
Moving is stressful, then change direction. You begin to navigate a new way for a partner, parent, friend, lover, a member of the choir, an official of the PTA and many others.
Here are ten tips to listen to your inner compass of the world running.
1. Question: "Who am I? What do I need to be happy? "
This secret of a good thing depends on the answer to the question: "Can I?"
To answer this question, ten write "I" statements about you - from scratch "I am a mother" to "I have a dog" with "I'm friendly and outgoing."
Before you move, ask yourself the following questions: "How will this change after the transfer of the list?" Do you have a dog in May and a father ... mijnhet of these functions in the same way?
2nd Take a test drive.
When buying a car, you should not go around the block. Try rough roads and roanuncios.
Since the move to Seattle or Syracuse? Study of culture as an anthropologist. What do they do? What to wear? How to talk with others?
More importantly, how do you feel? Did you develop new allergies, headaches or back pain during your visit? Or you like cold resterer forever?
3rd Pack emotional first-aid kit.
Much parte pack hikers a first-aid with zonnebrandcrème, Band-Aids and insect repellent.
For relocation, you can pack
Repeating phrases to face when you feel frazzled:
"Let go and relax."
"I can not face this problem."
"I am the future with confidence."
Ruscholen meditation and visualization (for unforeseen Ataques anxiety)
Favorite photos of friends, family, places and pets (remember who you are)
Telephone numbers of infiltrators of confidence (if you really need to hear a familiar voice)
4th Expand the ceremonies in honor of his new life.
How do I unpack boxes, or start a new mission, your favorite music and enjoy your favorite foods. Organize a room or a corner of the room in search of relatives. Algúnque people a ritual solution to adjust the new life of their own country.
5th Plan for the arrest.
For the first few months are likely to have holes in their schedule. Perhaps hij Standing dinner with neighbors on Wednesday. Held in the office and civil society organizations that have taken place.
Plan to fill the time with important projects. I advise proyectort a creative challenge. Write a novel.. A table comparatifleto. Join a dance group.
And I would like to add some physical activity, no lifting of weights in the gym to running marathons,walk the dog longer.
To feed the strength and fiduciaper others. If we look at vulnerable and needy, which attract negative people and negative experiences.
6. Take the time for new commitments.
Most newcomers are from two to five years to make friends duradera. During the first six months to prevent the accession of organizations (not to mention the elections). Register for the short term the possibility of testing the water.
You do not know the size of hidden adesionezione once with the enthusiasm of a group, knowing that their meetings were held in the game - and this is where the majority of the members! A waste of time and contributions.
7th Celebrating every day. Think small. A walk around the lake. A perfect cup of coffee in a bar nearby. A friendly face in the exhibition. Listen for the moments where you say: "I could get used to this ..."
Whatever happens, almeno a pocket of joy in his new life ... meestal something beautiful than ever expected.
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